Bartholin cyst,help!

I have a bartholin cysts that is now the size of a golf ball putting pressure on everything. I went and bought witch hazel, tee tree and the calamine. My question is, the gland opening is inside of me so do I try and out the saturated gauze pad on it? I have been to the Dr and the cath that he put in to drain it only stayed 5 days and don't ever want to go thru it again. I'm scheduled for a surgery in 5 days to stitch it open but really don't want to since I have no insurance. Will this mixer work on cysts? Mine is not infected my gland is clogged. I just want relief, its been a long month Tweet