It has been brought to my attention that some may feel intimidated and manipulated when coming to this forum?
I have been asked how can this be correct towards those who Genuinely are Seeking for the Truths in Healing!
I will have to admit that when anyone is Genuinely Seeking Truths in Healing that I need to learn to reply in such a manner, which will not cause them to feel any of these Negative vibes!
The problems I am facing include letting my Vanity get in the way as well as those folks who come Seeking with the Whole Purpose to cause Trouble!
I have asked myself repeatedly How to Solve this problem and up to this point had not come up with the correct answer!
It has come to my attention that I was not fully Seeking God's Guideance on these matters!
Today it has been revealed to me that there is a Solution!
I do not fully know if I have clear understanding about how to properly deal with every question in my mind, but I believe I have enough Truth revealed to me that I should be able to Implement needed corrections!
Part of the problem I have is spending time reviewing some of the posts on other forums where those who Bash and Complain have set up shop!
This is where my Vanity is getting the Best of me, when I take the time to respond!
The Bible tells us to not answer a Fool in his folly!
I believe that once I am able to Master myself to Stop reading any other forums and spend my time just on this forum, that much of this problem may be resolved!
Now the question I am trying to figure out is How to deal with those who choose of their own Free will to come to this forum to Start Trouble!
This is where it gets sticky!
How do I determine and sort out those Genuinely Seeking Help, against the Trouble makers?
What action do I take and How soon against trouble Makers?
If I believe they by their post are Seeking to make Trouble, do I Immediately Ban them?
If in their 1st post, they decide to start telling me How to run this forum, immediately Ban them?
If I feel they are just Seeking to make trouble, do I resist making any reply to them and let others reply and see where it leads and their reactions, before deciding to Ban them?
This is a Big problem for me to decide who, what, when, to ban and not chase away any who are Genuinely Seeking Healing!
I feel that if I can implement a system to control my actions to not cause any who are Genuinely Seeking Healing to feel intimadated or manipulated, as it seems some feel, that we should be able to help many more folks Genuinely Seeking Healing!
In the past I have resisted answering some posts because of the way the person 1st started posting, which made me wary of their True intentions!
Because of this I have been accused of not helping those Seeking.
It has seemed to make no difference how I approach the problem, that I would always end up having a problem, which would grow out of proportion and end up with folks who felt they had Hurt feelings, Egos etc!
I wish to come up with a Solution to overcome this Great Problem!
For the Whole Purpose of this forum should be to help folks who are Genuinely Seeking the Truths in Healing!
I am going to try to implement these ideas which have been made known to me as may be the Solution to bring Peace and Harmony to this forum!
If any of you feel I am stepping out of line from what God requires of us who are supposed to be representing him, Please let me know, so I may have your support in this Goal!
My 1st goal is going to be to Stop reviewing posts in other forums, so as to not influence my posts on this forum!
Then I am going to try to better answer to those Genuinely Seeking Healing and Stop answering those who seem to want to cause Trouble!
Somewhere in here I have to figure when to Ban those when they break TOS and Seek to cause Trouble!
Thank-you to all of you Fine Folks for your Support!