hi welcome!
i had the same prob and now the hair is not as much as a prob as the redness.
i was upset at first too, i tried eletrolisis (ok i know i didnt speel that right) and it was a waste IMO.
ppl on here helped me by telling about the wet/dry shaver.
dont be depressed! i too am married and have children and have a high profile job. you can do it! glad we found this board, it is helping!