Yes I am still here, thanks to Paulette. In a stormy time a couple of years ago we had to check the forums day and night to keep things peacefull. I remember it was Christmas and we were home (my husband and I) and I was on the computer from 7am-11pm, shaking like a leaf because it was nasty and stressfull. Paulette and I had to tell eachother who was going to be home.
I was ready to give up and she kept me calm and I got over it.
It is easier now with all the private forums taking care of their own.
I concentrate now more on spam since CZ is such a popular site that everybody wants their website on it. The Webmaster has helped out by making a special My Website forum besides the Market Place.
Thank you all for your support, I am now going back in hiding.