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Dating rape survivor


I was dating a girl I'd known a while and loved very much. Things were going well, she felt the same way, we were talking about our future together. However after a few weeks after we'd rekindled our relationship, she said sex was too stressful as she'd beeen raped a year and a half ago, and she coudlnt' be in a relationship with me. I told her I was fine with not having sex, being patient, and discussing what makes her uncomfortable and working through the issues with her, however she did not want to do this, saying it would put too much pressure on her to get better. I still love her very much, and she says she still loves me, but don't know what to do, does it make sense for me to stay close friends and hope that she'll come to feel more comfortable in time with a relationship? Is there anything I can do to make it easier for her? Or should I just go my separate way?
 

 
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