Lacking sex due to Herpes

Hello everyone! I have the herpes virus and i was always protected with the use of a condom. BUT i found my infection to be at the base of my penis the one area that a condom DOES NOT protect DAMN YOU TROJAN!! anyway, my question is if anyone else had that problem? i want to have sex again the way i used to but i always have that FEAR of spreading the virus so i dont. I'm wondering if someone out there knows of a type of "underwear" condom that FULLY protects the base of the penis and genital area. would someone be interested in that? is it just me? does someone know where i could find one? THANKS