I agree with Vance. Make yourself scarce. If he plays computer games when you are there....go home. Stop calling him...let him call you. Be sweet and available when he is, otherwise, live your own life. You are not living together - you are free to date others and see him too. If he gives you too much space - you should do just that. The relationship may die off...but doing it this way is less painful, and it is empowering for you.