Re: Aspects.

If your first instinct was that he was right for you, and you give him time to be emotionally clear and he feels right about things, then there is no reason why this cannot be a successful and longlasting relationship. It's a good relationship for sexual chemistry, giving birth and sharing projects together.

As i mentioned, if he is down, you need to leave him alone for a short while. You may have a tendency to feel that it is because of you, but it is just something in his make up ( in fact it is generally unadvisable for you to be around people who are down as it makes you feel twice as bad!).
If you follow this advice, he will feel good about the relationship and not suffocated.


Beyond astrology and the concept of soulmates which I am not sure if i believe in. From my own experience - not always happy! I can say that relationships which are karmic and there may be such an aspect here, often will last as long as the Karma needs to be resolved. This is a thorny issue and maybe not appropriate at this stage.

hope this helps!