True love?

It seems that people are much too focused on finding this "true love". If you are trying to find true love in every relationship that you make, you're setting yourself up for dissapointment.

The way I have look at dating and relationships is much more simple. I date many different women, and love and appreciate something different in all of them. If it turns into something extremely special, I simply date this one particular person exclusively until we settle down together or until I find someone that I'm more attracted to.

This search for true love seems to take all the fun out of making new friends and relationships, in my opinion.

It is a big turn off for most men to date women that are, or appear to be weeding men out for perspective husbands.