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as is normally the case, i was raped 10 years ago by someone i knew. the police weren't interested. i had been drinking and was wearing pvc. he had a respectable career ahead of him.

i dealt with it - i left the area, got counselling, started on a new relationship.

i was open with my partner. we talked about it. he was appalled. we seemed to agree on what was rape.

we've been together 6 years. all was well until during sex he said "i'm going to f**** you from behind whether you like it or not"

i started crying he couldn't understand why. i know i'm not over reacting but i need someone else to tell me that.