I thoroughly apologize if my sarcastic post offended you Montrl. I was engaged in a heated exchange with one of my "despised" rivals on this board. I understand how deplorable such a comment may appear but you still need to keep a sense of humor. Its all part of the battle of critical witt. Anyways, how insecure must you be to only now attempt to engage in a relationship with a female? It doesn't take 5-6 years to realize that we all have flaws and defects in some form and "significant others" need to accept us for our genuine identities rather than superficial appearances. Be proud, regardless of your imperfections, and be confident with your personal presentation.