Something shared, with fingers if that is ok with both, strawberries, warm then icy treats, in between light conversation, with candlelight. Combination of several small dishes with interesting flavors. Maybe a cold fruit soup? Maybe a bit of something spicy hot? followed by something cool and refreshing? definitely not until fullness overcomes comfort. And yes - light kissing in between...(Yes - that means no groping no matter the temptation...:)
And there MUST be soft GOOD music and some magic essence in the air, light very light.