Marriage the way that it is done now in the United States is not really a spiritual contract but rather a means to utilize services and gives one the ability to sue the other... I guess if anyone wants to put on a yoke that didn't have to then it might be like self-induced slavery... ha... but the pursuit is the only thing worth getting up in the morning for so if those guys and guys and inbetweeners want to take themselves off of the market then I say letem then G_d blessem'..