You ain't got no picker.

Much less "chooser".

Yep, me again....;-)

The short answer is you have no screens, weeding out the chaff.

Your clients were screened by you and for you.

They either learned not to be jerks or no business was done.

Because of your early development towards this line of work and I suspect, little early dating.

You failed to pick up "shit testing" skills most women who are 7's and above develop.

Guess what, it doesn't really matter what you look like at this time.

Because you have "learned" to be comfortable around men and do not automatically put them down, you are a 7+.

You are a breath of fresh air for a man to meet.

Unfortunately, you are giving the go ahead to a lot of immature jerks without realizing it. (immature jerks can be in their 70's, yep, no age limit for us men being jerks...;-)

A 7+ would crush these jerks by a mere look. Because they can sense "weakness", "neediness", "lack of ego", etc.

These "men" would normally be afraid to ask you for a date, if your "shit testing skills" were in place.

Yes, it's rather sad.

But for a 7+ protection is usually the highest priority.

Usually 7's+ go out with friends who will in fact screen the men for you as they make advances.

Rarely will a 7+ be by themselves around men.

At your present stage of life, you would most likely find it repugnant to develop skills for the sole purpose of "emasculating" men as a defense screen.

You need to retreat a wee bit and review how best, for your present mindset, to implement both a weeding screen and techniques for turning down advances.

I would in fact, suggest seeing a woman councilor for approaches on doing so.

You are simply missing a couple of skill sets.

These can be implemented in different ways both bad and good.

Sad to say however, most 7+'s do not consciously pick up these "put down" screening skills and are unaware of the hurt and anger they can generate in men.

Much less that it is they that keep this cycle in place.

Men, like boys, need to be educated in conduct towards the opposite sex.

But then, the fairy tails given to boys and girls sure in hell don't help.


Savagegrace

PS I apologize to the Ladies for the use of the 10 rating system.