well if I have offended you, it was not meant to be that way and I apologize unreservedly.
However, I was actually referring to DQ's post in reply to Trappers along this thread, which I thought brought a bit of light relief to, what is after all, a very serious subject. My post was just a light-hearted reaction to their own.
It is said that if you cannot laugh in the face of adversity then you are unable to laugh at all: laughter & humor can be the best medicine, of that there is very little doubt.
There are always two sides to a very serious coin.