try to care a lil less and dont trow tyour self at him that much motivate your self on lossing waight & feeling great about your self no matter what if u think is cause of tha context he gave u of gaining wait your mind will take it as if its real and make u feel more bad about your waight be happy and shift your thinking
make him see what he be missing and the time he trowing away not by showing that u care more being more loving to him by holding back creats a space of attraction
the words i miss u = the chasing is over u got me dont use them i need u
shows needyness is not attractive hope this helps