Hi Gilda, we have been married for three years but have been together 13 years. The reason why I have forgiven him is because he has ample opportunity to cheat on me before and has never, ever done it. It was so out of character for him that I knew something was wrong straight away. We do have a good relationship which only falls down in the area of our mismatched sex drives-and I guess I don't need to explain whose is the higher of the two! This has been a massive wake up call and I know exactly what to do to make him happy again-if only he would let me. The past months have had a bad effect on him and he has withdrawn to such an extent that I can't get through to him. I've done a lot of reading about Pisceans and know that they cannot take being hurt, but if you can manage to get through to them they come back stronger...but how to get through to him is the problem?!