--3RD Perspective--

Hi CID,

Your comment: I just want to point out a few things from a 3rd party perspective.

First off Sara is a beautiful person, with a big heart... she has suffered for many years with her ilness' and probably is very unstable. I know this because I am often in the same mindset. So she probably says alot of things she doesnt mean, she just says them out of frustration, fear, and anger.

That being said, I find that you are not innocent of the reactions that people have to you Moreless. I find you pick your fights. Your common method works like this. Someone doesnt agree with your point of view, or states something that might not be accurate. You then begin to belittle them in your posts, typically something personal like thier beliefs or saying they arent in line with GOD, rather than try to understand where they come from and approach them with loving hand. You imply things like they dont listen to God, or they are mindless. I could go on, but that doesnt help the situation... I am not on a witch hunt here.

Aswell You also justify yourself in all your belittlment/insults... I have yet to see anywhere where you appologize... which shows to me that you put yourself on a high pedistool.

Dont get me wrong... I am not innocent, and you and I have had arguements in your forum where I was VERY CLEARY out of line. However many of us do not understand nature... many of us have be brainwashed by religion/politics/society... but being caustic and abbrasive is not going to help us.

Neutons third Law "To every action there is an equal and opposite reaction"... Have you noticed the typical reactions that you get from your posts Moreless?

I ask only one thing of you... just to try out. Extend love into everything you do... that is all. So rather than making assumptions about people, or judging them from thier statements. Just give your point of view as best you can, and do it from a place of love. Love only generates more love... Actions speak louder than words...

p.s. I appreciate how you help all the people you help in these forums Moreless.... I respect what you do... and have learned alot from your posts. I fidn they are articulate and explain things well. I know your coming from a place of good intent, and are not malicous in nature. Again thankyou, and God Bless and Protect

Answer: Thank-you for commenting and I agree that because of folks being Sick and Diseased, this causes Extra Burdens on folks and because of my Strictness of sticking to Cause and Effect, this may Cause many folks Heartaches with my posting style?

"WE" Read into a reply what ever "WE" choose to !

Thus folks who may be too Acidic and touchy about some kind of comments may Seek Negative thoughts as a Normal course of action?

I will agree that sometimes my comments may come off Hard for some folks to stomach the message, but I am not trying to Please everyone in their choosen mindset, but just trying to get folks to start "Thinking" for themself, so that then they may be able to Help themself !

Most folks are Un-willing to make the needed changes to Heal both Physically and Spiritually !

Cause and Effect !

"WHY" should I be the Bad guy, when everyone who comes to this forum Seeking Help, some even "Demanding" and then always asking for Clarification, do "I" get Bent out of shape every Time?

But, in this Specific case I asked for Clarification and this person got "ALL" Bent out of shape about me asking for Clarification !

This is the problem with many folks who wear their Religion on their shoulders, they think they are better than everyone else, yet most of them take action just "Opposite" of what they want you to believe are their Beliefs about Peace to others etc !

In my Book action speaks Louder than Empty words !

I learned to judge a Book by it's "Contents" not it's cover !

So, when someone tells me that their Religion is "ALL" about "Peace", yet they get "ALL" Bent out of shape because of Requesting Clarification, this does not speak well to me for their Religion !

Life is a two way street, and so is this forum, if I am required to hold my Cool everyday as folks continue to ask me "ALL" kinds of questions and continue to ask for Clarification to the answers, "WHY" should not those asking these questions show "ME" the same respect when I ask them to provide Clarification?

I Lose Respect Real Fast for folks who Demand of "ME" Respect, but turn around and "Fail" to show "ME" any Respect !

It is "NOT" My fault these folks are the ones who are Sick and Diseased !

As I have mentioned before, I am not here to hold everyones hand and let them cry on my shoulder everytime they have a problem to make them Feel Good about "Their" "Poor" choices, which may have Caused their Porblems in the 1st place !

Folks who want that , have plenty of other forums that are just Social Clubs on curezone that they can cry with each other Un-willing to make the needed changes to Heal!

This forum is for those who are willing to Face up to their problems and be willing to make the needed changes and take Personal Responsibility to begin the road of Healing !

Face it !

Life is Hard and it becomes Harder if "WE" are Un-willing to help ourself !

If mo123 would have just dropped it when she did not want to provide me Clarification, this post would not have been made, but when she decided to continue to "Falsely" accuse me of things I did not do, but in her mind I did, and she decided to Rant and Rave about me on other forums, I decided to set the record Correct !

"I" consider it Double standards when someone thinks they can ask me questions and then Request Clarification of my answers and I do this without getting all Bent out of shape and going to other forums and trying to air my Greefs !

Yet, when "I" ask them for some Clarifications, "I" am the Bad guy and they get "ALL" Bent out of shape and Rant and Rave !

Wouldn't "YOU" expect others to be considerate of "YOU" if "YOU" had a forum and be Kind enough to Clarify for "YOU" when "YOU" would ask them to Clarify, when they are asking "YOU" to Clarify "ALL" Day long?????????????

Cause and Effect !

Smile Tis your choice.