I find that idealized vision of humanity SO oppressive...yes, I suppose that we would all love to be good and perfect, but we're not! (at least I'm not...anyone with me?)
Why would smiling when one wants to scream be considered an attribute?
When you need to cry, cry.
When you want to laugh, laugh!
Yes, I am strong...not always. Comforting, yes..not always. I am generous AND selfish...the list could go on and on...
We are human, flawed... I revel in my imperfection...it keeps the trip fun!
& now that I've got that out of my system I think I'll go mix me a freshly squeezed carrot/beet juice & vodka...call that one a "nuclear sunset".(hehehe)
lol;-)