Re: A possible new relationship, is this healthy...? PLEASE READ- I need advice/input!!!

My comment would be "Whoa". It's been a month? A guy who wants to rush you into being all his so quickly...and dominate...is a danger sign.

It's natural that you'd like someone to envelop you and take away your pain. But it does seem as if that may drive you into repeating past mistakes.

And, though it's the hardest thing you'll ever have to do, you'll have to learn to become whole and heal yourself before you'll attract healthy relationships. No one can do it for you.

I think you are reaching out because you know something is not quite right. Good luck.