Your sister must have had something to do with your marraige problems,wether you know it or not.It seems to me,she was jealous of your marraige,and inside takes pleasure in the distruction there of.If you restored your relationship with your ex. it would ruin her pleasure in your misery.Jealousy is cruler than the Grave. P.S.What did you do to drive your husband away.There is always two sides to the story.Is it possible that you erred???? Steven West