If you feel pain after ejaculation you are suffering from the Levator Ani Syndrome like myself. Milking or massaging your prostate will not do anything. The priblem is your Levator Ani muscle that it is needed to ejaculate and doesn't go back to its normal posiiton after ejaculation, therefore it creates a lot of pressure on the urethra. You need magnesium, CoQ10, and vitamin E. Read my posting "I cured my prostatitis" for instructions.