wow im almost over this! my answer was Melatonin tablets and P. Serine tablets( cant remember the name). its amazing. i have no build up or anything. they feel like lips again. so soft. not that strange wrong feeling anymore. they are very soft now. they feel normal when they meet. and look normal and the Vermilion border is back for sure!! :)
i now have a plain surface on the lips ( and it stays like that!!). im like cured. im in chock. :) after 6 years of hell (more for many of you). my answer is Melatonin and p.Serine. this combo has ( for now) cured me. and i dont need anything on them.