I offered advice and got jumped on for it. That thread wasn't turned towards me by me, that was done by those choosing to criticize me instead of offering assistance to the original poster.
I did begin my own threads on that very topic; therefore, I do recognize it. As is why I recommended that the original poster take a look at the responses given to me on my threads.
If you would like to continue judging me and my personal relationships, please direct them to my inbox, rather than publicly making harsh, indirect, unnecessary comments.
We do have the same problem and I decided to deal with it in the way that is best for me.