It has become increasingly uncomfortable in many of the forums on CZ for me as well. I realize I cannot read all the negative doomsay anymore. I come on and check a few forums. Yet, this past week, there have been a few that I have removed myself from. They do not seem as if they are wanting to help...in my view. This is not to say that what the forum(s) are doing is not working for other folks though.
I like the Abe forum. I also, feel as you do Infinite, sometimes it is just too cheery ! I guess even though I am raising my vibration, sometimes it is not to the level of that forum.
I see I am introverting again. That is not always bad for me, I do hope though as Spring finally comes, it will end. Yet, when I introvert, I come back out, most times of recent, an even stronger Me. So, I guess it's all good.