As an expert in words, sentences, and perceived thought...you paint a clear picture in your original post of a woman who is desperate for results. I don't care one way or the other whether you take the advice given to you...it's your life. Re-read your post, a post of a sexless woman who is at her wits end and wishes not to engage in anything orgasmic. I exposed you for what you are, don't show your fangs. I don't budge, Jill, you'll just have to learn that the hard way. You take your medicine, like many I have served, and come out a better woman. Or you stay exactly the way you are. Quite sad. This is my last response to you...