Re: Just another urban legend....

About twenty years ago I worked with a woman who I knew quite well (not in the biblical sense) who was married with two children and she informed me that she had slept with her boyfriend the night before her wedding to her husband.  It was her first marriage.  I knew both her and her husband quite well from before the marriage to the time she told me, and they had produced two children by then.  

There was a university level study in England which was out to determine what percent of children were fathered by the husband or committed partner of the woman giving birth.  They did this through DNA analysis - which doesn't lie.  Through a large sampling of offspring they determined that 10% of all children they had tested were not fathered by the woman's partner.  When the preliminary results were leaked to the public in 1999, there was such a public outcry that the study had to be stopped.  The one link I used to have to the study has been dropped, and there is nowhere on the Internet that I can any longer find reference to it.  That's how adversely affected people are with reality.

The moral standards of Western Civilization are just like those in the days of the Roman Empire.  What the written or understood morals are, are violated en masse by those who proclaim them the loudest.  Our idiocy concerning sex and love has many generations to go before it reaches maturity.  There is no connection, and I mean none, between sex and love.  If you're into chakras you know that sex is in the first and second chakras (the energy is in the second, the critters in the first) and love is primarily in the fourth.  People get their chakras mixed up all the time.  I know that I wasn't the first one to do so, nor was I the last.