LOL, NO it wasn't anything you said... But you are right, I haven't gone back for a long time. I was really more disappointed than I had thought... but now that you tell me what is going on maybe I will take a peek. I mean its not they that forum wasn't helpful cause it was. There are a lot of folks who really want to help and provide a lot of great support. But as you said, it is the 'this is the right path only' type of advice that has turned me off. I know that some of them havfe dealt with AF a lot longer than I but I have seen enough to realize that there is no 'one right way' to fix this... It is a finding a combination of many life changes and getting on a path that is right for you that is important.