Perhaps INSTEAD of asking for this, that & the other thing, one should simply ask for joy & make a list of things to do/think that are not action items but are things that elicit joy from us personally, since joy's the highest on the vibrational guidance system chart (in tandem with appreciation & love). If we do that & that ALONE, all should follow because our rockets of desire have already been answered.
I realize this is a redundant message, however, some things truly take longer to absorb than others!