Oops. Wow, Shroom. You were nice enough to reply to me and I spouted off all over you. So sorry. I guess you know it's not you. You are clearly a very very smart and compassionate person. I will hope you didn't take it personally. Thank you for you're advice. Note: I also asked my sister [who, tho raising 4 boys right now is a doctor --med/peds. She said don't go to the doctor. She said they would lock me up. I didn't go so we will never know, but I think she was right.