hi im graham and i am 15 in texas. my best friend has been addicted to cocaine for the past month or so. i have not been able to communicate with him until yesterday and i have been very worried and sad about the whole ordeal. he said he had snorted at least 20 times in the past month. the reason i spoke to him yesterday is becasue his parents finally found out. now he realizes what he has been doing to himself but he still knows he wants more. fortunately he is going to check into rehab as an inpatient on wednesday.
on the other hand, there is nothing wrong or right you can do while the addict does not realize what he is doing. they have no regard for what others think or feel, as long as they get a fix. the past month has been a giant cluster of confusion, being lied to, and Depression for me. as for him, he did not care what he was doing to himself or the people around him. what i am trying to say is that your fiance must have a reality check. sometimes that means hitting the very rock bottom. for my friend, hitting rock bottom was eating to many pills and thinking he literally died for an extended period of time and then waking up and getting caught by his parents.