about the list of my perfect mate - yes, I wrote down mainly personlity traits as well as looks (I did not specify eye clor and hair either). Also, things I like him to do together (like enjoy spending time with me, remembering my birthday and holidays) as well as his life style (like working out). Basically everything that comes to mind :-)
The magical creation box is very similar to the vision board as far as I know. I think its good to do both. I dont see any difference in them but will check if I can find something later today in my books. I am gonna do my vision board this weekend.