you should get tested so you know definitively. Testing in the US varies in price. The test you will want is an HSV 1&2 IgG test like the Focus Labs HerpeSelect that is available almost everywhere. One way to get it in the US without having to see a doctor is to use http://healthcheckusa.com
Don't be too surprised if you show up as having HSV1 as a large majority of the adult population will test positive for it as a result of having it orally, as in cold sores. Many of the people that have it don't know as they don't have any symptoms.