Re: When being too specific is unhelpful

I've never been big on dreams, maybe post it in the Dreams Forum .

I've read that dreams are more about what you want, rather than prophetic.. yet, some have prophetic dreams. And everyone will translate your dream differently.

"Now, regarding my husband - should I stay passive from now and practice focusing on the RIGHT relationship, feel it, expect it, and see if he comes to me, showing me that he is the one IF he is the one???

How can I keep seeing him and at the same time make myself open to the right person??? In the past thats why I stopped seeing him. I was waiting that one of two things would happen: For him to come backto me as a changed man or for a a new person to arrive."

Less, action, more feeling. I think that's the way to go. You do all the good work with deliberate creation of what you want with thoughts only, focus on the perfect relationship, get to that place where you feel good all the time ... and let whatever happens happen.

Just allow your husband to be as he wants to be for the time being, see if he takes action and comes to his own conclusions. There's no rush, no decision to be made. Just allow yourself to keep evolving and when the time is right, something will happen and you will know.

My best manifestations have come when I had let go of what I wanted as an outcome.

I think it's time to let go.