"Her life seems improved but she has many doubts (self) so she has manifested much and seems to me to be working on perfection which may be disappointing since often perfection hunting has pitfalls"
What I have come to realise and Abraham mentions this quite often, is that we are not here to be perfect or get it all done. Thought creates new worlds, the desires that we have keeps the universe growing.
We never get it all done. It always remains incomplete because our life experiences always have contrast (what we don't want versus what we do) ... and the Earth, physical plane is one of duality.
Even as much as we focus on the inner/spiritual/non physical/oneness side of us, to do so 100% defeats the object of being here, in this space time reality.