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Background:
Married to my first husband for 10 years who was not circumcised.
Married to my second husband 11 years who is circumcised.

Sex with my first husband was so painful that sex with him felt like he was going to kill me. I was never satisfied with him at all. With my second husband it has been better then I could ever imagine. I hated that fact that my first husband was not circumcised. He took 3 to 4 baths per day and still could not get rid of the fishy smell. It was constantly a battle for him.

When I worked as a health care nurse I had uncircumcised elderly men who were bedridden. Their family memebers would not keep them clean. The urine would dry up under the skin and seal the skin into place. If they happened upon their body trying to have an erection during the night it left them in a lot of pain. I would have to wrap a very warm wet washclothe around their heads to get the crusty urine to soften. It was very painful for them and it use to drive me nuts that they were not circumcised becuase they were so uncomfortable. My uncircumcised patients never had this issue.

I would never go back to having a sexual relationship with another thick head. For me personally it was the worst sex in the world. It may be a fantasy some women have that they are torchering men with and I am not saying this of you. You sound like you have complete compassion for your husband but these other women you mention have totally misled him into believing a lie. Circumcised is not preferred across the board. I meet with a group of 8 women and we have discussed this topic and only one woman has said she prefers. One woman has never been with an uncircumcised man and she fantasies about an event.

One of my friends has 3 boys and 2 of them had horrible penis odor that she had to completely work to get rid of. If I had a son he would definately be circumcised becuase of my own personal experience. I could care less about someone's accusation of mutilation. That is just childessness. I've never had my daughter's ear's pierced because it is her choice. Circumcision would not be my son's choice because that would be mine.