Kite flying lessons (A LENGTHY RANT)

Yes, I would generously offer all the "little boys" in my life a ticket to where they could go fly the swiftest kites as soon as possible, then I would busy myself finding a good male partner/friend who tickles all my fancies in just the way my own, "little girl" body likes it best, which incidentally, like the overwhelming majority of women the world over, is a clitoral orgasm.

P.S.  I really believe that the reason one hears so many women in this country (US) complain about bumbling men in the sack has to be the way men have been mothered, or lacked in mothering.   It is a mother who nurtures and stimulates her children to become demonstrably loving grownups.

Find me the son of a mother who kissed, hugged, touched, caressed, etc., her child, and you will find a man who knew how to transfer that non-sexual love into sexual love at the proper time and with the proper person.   From my observations, most of the people in anglo/brit cultures only hug their children frequently while they are babies, and then beyond that age there is a tremendous physical distance between parents and children.  The next time these children encounter physical touch, is in the confines of sexual relationships and by then they haven't got a clue what to do because suddenly they are exepected to "perform"  wth no prior training in touching and loving.   It's impossible to demonstrate physical love in a sexual manner if you never experienced pure love to begin with.

This cultural void is the reason why so many women feel dissatisfied with their men, and the reason why the men scratch their heads wondering what they did wrong, because the poor oafs learned all their sexual behaviour from watching stupid p 0 r n flicks, instead of having learned love from their parents, and especiallly mothers.  Go ahead, pooh pooh me if you want, but go on and take the time to investigate this.   It may be a mystery to the very ones who are brought up like this, but many other cultures are looking and shaking their heads in pity.

Moms, you want your sons to be good men/lovers?   Love them tenderly at all times, and don't ever stop (unless of course if he turns into a NPD monster all on his own, but that's another story).  Just extend that love to his wife when she comes and then to their children.  Guaranteed stuff!