your gyno is an idiot. sorry these doctors think that they're so smart b/c of the schooling they had, whatever, a really good doctor is one who listens to their patients and tries to help them, not tell them that it's all in there head. i you get better, but i had mine in for 2yrs, the only thing i liked was how light my period was, although it was often, other than that, me having the iud was awful and things just go worse for me.