I would suggest getting healthy.And maybe a Fast would be in Good timeing right now.The answers are already in you.Your spirit man will lead you into all truth.God knows.Clean the toxins out.When ever a Great person needed answers,they would seek a Higher calling.Your in the forest and cant see the trees.You seem crowded.Please clean your bodys,and Freedom will come.A Fast purifies the Mind.Re-new your thinking.thro out the garbage mind.Celebrate in the 90% of Good you have in your relationship,because most dont carry thos numbers.Clean the body,both of you,and then you want care about this issue anymore.Set each other free.I know this is a naturall cure,but it does have an effect on our thinking.Clean the body,and you want care what anyone thinks.Plus,this is a win win.Your health holds al the answers. Distilled water,stop raw sugar,add fruit,long walks together in the fresh air,limit TV.And Trust your spirit. Is it wortthe effort.FAST Steven