That's all it is. Love does NOT equal sex. Just because someone want to engage in a booty-call or has taken a woman's virginity does not mean that they are the first choice, the best choice, or the wisest choice in a partner.
If it were me, I'd take every minute of time that I had to devote to my Self (that Life's Spark that makes ME unique) and develop my Self into a strong, smart, wise, and self-sufficient woman. Once I've gotten to the point of self-sufficiency and wisdom, I would be emotionally ready to find and accept a partner that was meant for me.