Sounds like the Bible would suggest you have came accros those that would suck the life out of you! Eve never was a good girl you know! Traps are every where, all life on earth can become one huge trap with hard lessons to learn. The Bible suggest this:
You will never know (not ever) who around you is a human and who is only a teacher being used by God for your education. You are ALONE, regardless what you think, in a class known as earth education. Every decision you make, will determine your next lesson.