Be careful what you wish for.

I hear that if you make a little sailor hat out of aluminum foil and cover your body in maple syrup and brightly colored feathers it could greatly improve your chances of being noticed by them. :)

Also, driving through the mountains on some deserted road in the middle of nowhere with noone else around could also help, as I understand it.

Seriously, though- you don't find them. They find you. The best you can hope to do is spot them for an instant, just in passing. Look to the skies, my friend.

Man, no you don't. First of all, those malevolent creatures live underground, not in outerspace like we are led to believe. (Watch out of the coming hoaxed alien intervention aka Project Bluebeam)
Secondly, they mean humanity no good at all. They are liars and deceivers by nature and want us all dead.