I dont mean too shock you or any thing but...truley...consider the fact that he might not be into girls. A lot of boys just...dont want to come to terms with it. Personally I love woman, but some times I dont feel like having sex with them either. I'm totally in love with my girl friend, we're very active but there are days where I dont feel like having it.

All the time though...and he masterbates...those are warning signs for YOU. Seriously its a sad fact but some times men and woman just...are gay. Im not saying this is the case with your boy, but it could be. I personally am bi, so there are days when im not into my girl friend as much. In general though I just love to be with her and make love to her. I love to service her a lot, but again some days im not into it. Im not trying to rub that in your face, im actually showing you an example of a more normal relationship. Yeah its great that he's loving, but from what im hearing you really need a man who's going to service you and make your body feel worshiped. If he cant do that for you as often as you need him too then seriously get out of this relationship now. It will only hurt more and more, and it will make you feel unwanted sexually which is a very demoralizing thing. You NEED a man who will worship your being, and worship your body in combination. Not one or the other, there needs to be a balance.

If he masturbates, he does have a sex drive, so in fact, he does like sex but not necessarily with a partner. That's an indication that he may have an issue connecting his sex drive with emotional intimacy, i.e. his feelings for you. That doesn't bode well for a happy future together, unless he is willing to explore that with you and understand at a deeper level why he prefers sex alone. When a person rejects sex with their partner, it is sometimes a passive-aggressive act to control them or push them away.

Melissa