marinewife97,
the only way to win this war is to kill approx. 50% of all Iraqi people
(or approx all males).
Is that you and your husband wish for?
How else do you think this war will end, when every dead Iraqi brings 5 or 10 alive Iraqi on the side against USA and against the present Iraq government.
We can not win this war! Nobody has ever won a war by occupying a nation (in the last 100 years).
I will repeat this: We can not win this war!
marinewife97,
in 2009, you will come back to this message and you will read it.
You will understand who was right and who was wrong.
Do you know how USA won the war against American natives?
By exterminating them. That is the only way to win war against a nation who hates you.
That is the same way Spanish Conquistadores won the war against natives in other parts of American continents.
That is the same way Britain won the war against natives in Africa, Australia and other parts of the world.
By exterminating them.
Once you kill 50% - 90% ... the rest usually agrees and accepts your rule and your laws.
That is the only way how any occupying force can win any war, any time.
Hitler lost war in Europe.
Japan lost war in Asia.
Russia lost war in Afghanistan.
We lost war in Vietnam.
Nobody won war in Korea.
Israel is still fighting in Palestine and is going to fight for the next 100 years.
We "won" in Afghanistan, but are going to fight the war for the next 50 years.
Last 60 years nobody ever won any war by occupying another country.
Those who don't learn from history are doomed to repeat it.
We, as it appears, learned nothing in Vietnam.
I am sorry, I am just realistic, I am not pessimistic.
Get your husband out of Iraq while he is still in one piece. This war is not going to end soon. Read my previous message, to get some insight.
Goldie