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I wouldn't wax. I have waxed my legs since I was 16 and have regretted it ever since. Once you start you can't stop easily as the hair gets stronger and more course. Furthermore, you will have to wait for it to grow back to at least 1cm before you can wax it again. It's only after years and years of regular waxing that the dark hair will become weaker. This has happened on my bikini line but it is still dark hair, just a bit thinner.
What is Epicare? Is it an Epilator? I have also tried these and I'm sorry to put a downer on it again, but if you are yanking out hair and you'll find they will grew back stronger.
I would love to have the lasor treatment, as that is permanent but VERY expensive! I remember reading that a guy paid £10,000 to have his back done but I have just read on this site that someone has bought a home lasor for $2500. I think I could justify that if it worked!
Good luck