I think all guys look at Porn some time or another.I dont know about all the time though
I think a guy needs to answer this post lol
I'll be interested to see what they say :)
Sorry I'm no help

A.Many guys have viewed p 0 r n at some point in their lives. B.More than a few guys view p 0 r n frequently.
C.However, NOT that many guys have p 0 r n websites, let alone several p 0 r n websites.
I suggest you seriously consider looking for a new boyfriend..start with category A.

Most, a large majority, of men have probably looked at porn at some time or other (there are always exceptions.) Some look and are actually rather disgusted. Some look for a while and find it hollow and shallow and move on once it becomes boring (I know a few guys who run a Very Large porn hosting service and after a while, it all becomes just a mundane job to them.) Others find enjoyment out of it, but can take it or leave it if they enter into a relationship and it's an unwanted intrusion. Others fight for their "manly right" to view porn ("All men do!" or "It's just a natural guy thing.") Still others actually get addicted to it. Possibly not as large a percentage, but many women follow very similar lines.

I don't see the porn itself as the issue. The main issue is the lack of understanding and cooperation. It does appear as he has a rather dogmatic and unrealistic double standard that he wants you to live up by. There is also the point that you have a certain moral standard of your own that you want him to live up to. Neither one is actually getting you anywhere.

Maybe the questions you should be asking are if he's hiding things from you now, what else might he be hiding and what else might he hide in the future? If nothing changes, are you willing and able to live with it without it affecting you and your views and values? Can you accept it and his views and actions as part of the life you want to live?

You can't change people into what you want them to be. We can simply accept them for who they are and then decide if we want to continue to closely associate with them or not. There are many people I know that I have no problem with them being who they are or acting as they do, but I choose not to associate myself with them as their actions and choices do not blend with anything I am comfortable having in my life. It is not judgment, just discernment.

Personally, if my husband was so callous and cavalier about my views and feelings about something and was unwilling to compromise because "it's just a guy thing", then I would probably pack up and move on (crying my eyes out for a month or so during the process.) Thankfully, after many (many, many) previous failed attempts at inter-relating, dating, co-habitating, and marrying other men, I don't worry in the least about the man I've chosen to live out my life with ever even considering to act that way.

Relationships require respect. Can you respect his choices and actions and is he respecting you?

Guys that are into p 0 r n now are guys that will be into p 0 r n later. Involving yourself with people who don't hold any moral standards is playing with fire. If you rationalize bad behavior, you deserve what you get. Some women just won't take a hint. What does it take...a load of bricks to fall on you?

I think most girls go through something like this, cause most of all guys look at porn. I know you don't wanna hear that it's normal but it is. I still get a bit upset when husband does it, but at the end of the day, if he's only physically with you and sleeping with you, you shouldn't worry. i have a very open relationship with my husband so he explained to me why, he said it's just a thing guys have grown up with, they started looking when they we're younger and i guess it's just fun for them to see naked girls, and i'm sure it means nothing bad about you. But what's good for him is good for you, if he can do it so can you, even if you don't wanna it might feel nice to let him come across some of your naughty pics, show him how it feels. If he doesn't like it go home one day with some porn and insist you watch it together, i did and it opened up the discussion, he'll be less opposed to talking about it. I have a million friends going through the same thing so all i can think is that no matter who i find it's gonna be the same so don't let it bother you, or try at least. You'll be fine don't worry and just concentrate ont he thnings you love about hin, afterall we all have our faults.