By hooked up-I presume you mean you slept with him.

I'm sorry but I don't think he is the one for you otherwise wild horses would not have dragged you into that situation -either that or you are very immature.

Don't be at all surprised if he can not forgive you. You've broken this trust by doing the unforgiveable-if you can make a go of it -then you have been very lucky.

If not and your relationship fails-next time you meet 'the one' you will take great pains to nurture it-so that sort of behaviour does not happen again.

Mature people who get mad with the people they love-do not use such destructive behaviour to get their message across

Good Luck
Alison

Well, you screwed up by telling him in the first place. Women typically try this stupid stunt by getting laid as a payback or something. What's with that logic? Never works. Your guy will NEVER FORGET WHAT YOU DID. No matter how much kissyface or making up you're doing, you violated his trust with another guy's meat. A guy will always think of you as untrustworthy and/or slutty and might get laid with another gal to even up the score. That's how guys think, right or wrong. I wouldn't want to start a long-term on this footing...too many future paybacks in store for you.