I am a healthy 34 year old male and life has suddenly changed
for me. I seek your help and guidance to life me from this dark state.

* My life has undergone a drastic change for the worse over the past few weeks. For the first time in my life, I failed to have an erection that night and could not make love. I had a burning sensation in my penis.

* From that point onward, I have not been able to have strong, persistent erection and hence have not been able
to perform sexual intercourse with my wife. Infact, I have never been able to achieve an erection in my wife's presence
3-4 times now. This is having a huge strain in my life.

* I have been able to get an erection when I massage my penis but it is taking me longer. Also the whole effort creates a burning sensation in my penis. Also the erection is not strong and I have pain at the base of my penis.I have masturbated successfully - the semen flow seems to be fine. However, am not able to have an erection without touching my penis - I used to do it before.

* I showed this problem to a Family Practice Doctor and he prescribed 14 days of Antibiotics that I am taking. However in my urine sample tests did not show any bacteria. I also am not showing much improvement.

* I am an otherwise healthy 34 year old male. My cholestrol level is 190 odd with a low HDL (around 29 - this is not good) and high triglyceride count (around 300) I had my health checkup performed early this year and did not have diabetes.

Here is my current state:
I have an erectile dysfunction problem - I am not able to sustain an erection and my love life with my wife is in shambles. Infact both of us are suffering, this is the worst phase in our life.
I am confused - I do not know the cause, and day by day
WE are losing confidence that I will ever be able to return back to normalcy.
The initial diagnosis was prostatitis but now the Doctor is not sure also.
Please help.

Thanks

SG