About 10 days ago, I had unprtected sex with my girlfriend. During the sex she complained of uncomfort, and went to see her doctor the next day. The doctor told her that she thought it could be herpes and prescribed medication to both of us (saying for me it was just for prevention).
Soon after I noticed small pimple like bumps in my pubic area. There are less then a dozen of them and all spread out between my leg and my lower stomach (none on my penis, or even too close to it). I immediately started researching Herpes and found a lot of things that would make it sound like I have it (and some that make it seem unlikely):
- The bumps are small and pimple like.
- They went from looking like pimples to scabbing, NO liquid came out of them.
- I have NO discomfort whatsoever. No itching, no pain.
- I have no marks on my penis
- I did have a 24 hour flu soon after noticing the bumps (low fever, vomiting, headache).
- I did have unprotected sexual relations with my girlfriend who seems to have herpes.
- I seem to have a "leak" of pee from my penis (just a drop or two, but never did before)
So, I went to my doctor and he said it is absolutely not herpes, but just a rash. However he made a couple of comments that made me think, maybe he didn't know what he was talking about. For example, he said that Genital Herpes always presents itself on the penis (I know this is untrue). He prescribed me an
Antibiotic cream to put on my sores, and said I have nothing to worry about. So far the cream has done nothing, but I have only been using it for 24 hours.
My questions:
- Should I trust my doctor, even though I feel strongly he is probably wrong?
- If it were to be herpes, is there anything I should be doing right now that could help? Considering I have no pain anyway.
- I have never had a rash like this before, is it possible all of these things (flu, unprotected sex etc.) could just be one big coincedince?
- I am driving myself crazy about worrying about this? Should I just sit back and wait to see if it comes back again?
I have about a million questions, like I am sure all of you did at the beginning, but I better stop!
It is really great there is all this support out there for people who need. My heartfelt thanks goes out to all those people who take the time to listen to others.
Thank you,
J.