Aloha.
I met a girl online who I knew immediately I felt something for. She was in Tennessee but has since moved back to hawaii (where she was born). We met in Jan, have been "dating" since february. I had told her I loved her and that I would always stay with her, which was totally true. She said the same things to me back.

Anyway, during her spring break, she chatted with a guy on the net and ended up meeting him with friends for dinner and a movie. SHe had told him everything about us and that they were only going to meet as friends. During the movie, which just happened to be scary, he would hold her during the graphic parts. He ended up driving her home, just her, and it took them "about two hours" to make it back and they ended up making out for a lot of that time.... At first she had lied about it, "only so we could talk about it on the phone and not the net" she says. Her friend ended up telling me and I got really mad. I broke up with her. Then she told me while we were broken up, she "needed to talk to someone" so she met a guy friend of hers, ended up drinking with him (for the first time ever) and ended up making out with him. I was a little mad, but let it go.

I seriously love this girl and so I ended up getting back together with her. Note we havent met at all yet. Now I have a problem trusting her, even when she tells me she loves me, as she said all that before. I love her so much and it hurts that I cant cuz it hurts her so much that i cant trust her.

I am considering breaking up with her, as i know it will only cause more pain in the long run, but we are so close to actually meeting (june 20) that im not sure. she really wants to be with me still, and she says everything has changed and that she didnt really know how she felt back then. please help me... anyone go thru similar situations? Results?
thanks